"I don't understand why some people prefer to be hated than getting along with people"Yesterday, someone said this to me, and I have to agree, that these type of people do actually exist. But why? That's what most of us most likely to respond when someone said that. Human, by nature, want to be LOVED instead of being HATED. But, why these type of people exist? That's the question that I would like to explain here. Maybe this is not the right explanation, but using the sane mind of mine, this is the only explanation that I can come up with.
It's true that most human, by nature, want to be loved. Loved by parents, loved by friend, and loved by their significant other(s) :P . But, for some, they tend to do things that annoys people. Why you may ask, and there's only one word to explain it. Attention. Yes, most people want to be notified, want to be look upon by others. Kalau kat twitter, semua berharap nak jadi tweetfamous. But, some are famous because they annoy others. For most of these type of people, they are dying to be wanted by others, but couldn't get or received the proper attention that they truly desire. If they are under their sane mind, they would do what most normal people do, be kind to others so people will like them. But, not everyone is sane enough. That's the harsh truth.
For some, kids contohnya, when they want their parents to buy toys for them, they usually ask kindly. But when their parents refuse to buy it for them, they start doing tantrum. These type of kids, when they frequently denied what they want and only given what they desire when they start the tantrum, learnt that THIS(doing tantrum or annoys their parent) is the only way they can get the attention from their parents. That is why, when they grow up, they like to annoy people. But, truthfully, they actually don't want to be hated, but, like I said before, they actually want to be recognize and appreciated, or in the other word, LOVED.
"If everyone can understand each other, there will be peace"
Therefore, all in all, every single soul actually want to be loved. How they tried to seek the love and the attention they naturally desire depends on the values that are taught to them. So, don't hate, keep calm and fall in love. :P
Thoughts? Anyone?
p/s: "Gua memang benci mak bapak tak reti nak didik anak bebetul sampai anak terpaksa buat jahat semata nakkan perhatian, beli kondom please"
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